Your Circle Has to Be Able to Pray, Cry & Laugh With You — Because Seasons Change by Adeline Atlas
May 20, 2025
Welcome back to Soul Renovation, I’m Adeline Atlas — 7-times published author.
Definition:
A circle is more than a group — it’s a spiritual container. It’s the people assigned to hold space for your evolution, not just your image. Real circles carry you in every season, not just the one that benefits them.
Your circle has to be able to pray, cry, and laugh with you — because seasons change. And if they can’t hold you in all three frequencies, they’re not your circle — they’re your audience. There’s a difference. An audience claps when it’s convenient. A circle covers you when it’s critical. You need people who can meet you in the spirit, sit with you in the sorrow, and celebrate with you in the win — all without switching up.
Because let’s be real — life isn’t one mood. It’s not one energy. It’s not one vibration. It’s layered. You will have mountaintop moments where you’re glowing, confident, clear — and you’ll have shadow seasons where you don’t even recognize yourself. You’ll have days when the only thing holding you up is prayer. You’ll have nights when the tears won’t stop. And in between all of that — you’ll need to laugh. Loudly. Deeply. Without censoring your joy because someone in the room doesn’t like your shine.
You need a circle that can flow with the shift. Because if they can’t adjust to your seasons — they’re not connected to your soul, they’re connected to your condition. They’re only there when you’re useful, not when you’re vulnerable. And that kind of connection? It’ll break when the pressure hits. Every time.
Let me say this: if they can’t pray with you, they can’t cover you.
If they can’t cry with you, they can’t carry you.
If they can’t laugh with you, they can’t lift you.
You don’t need a crowd. You need a covenant. People who are aligned to your calling — not just your current situation. People who don’t get uncomfortable when you’re in a healing season. Who don’t vanish when you get blessed. Who don’t get awkward when you’re in spiritual warfare. You don’t need friends who can match your vibe — you need ones who can match your weight.
Because here’s the truth: anyone can be present during your laughter. It takes no spiritual maturity to show up to the celebration. But who can sit in silence when you’re numb? Who can fast with you when you're under attack? Who sends voice notes filled with scripture when you can’t even pray for yourself?
And let’s not forget the laughing part. Because healing isn’t just weeping — it’s joy. It’s humor. It’s those moments of lightness that make the pain bearable. If your circle can’t laugh with you, they’re not in flow with your frequency. If they can’t enjoy you as much as they support you, then they’re operating in obligation, not love. Your circle should feel like breath — not a role to maintain.
You were never meant to go through life with people who only know one layer of you. The ones who only know you as “strong.” The ones who only know you as “the one who’s got it all together.” The ones who only call when they need something — but disappear when you finally break down.
No more one-sided support systems.
No more half-present friendships.
No more curated connections.
You need people who will stop what they’re doing to cover you in prayer when the energy gets heavy. People who notice your silence and check in, not just when you’re winning, but when you’ve gone quiet. People who celebrate your success without shrinking, and who sit with your pain without judgment.
Seasons will change. Your energy will shift. Your role will evolve. And if your circle can’t move with you through all of it — it’s not your circle, it’s a season. Bless it. Release it. But stop calling it covenant when it’s really convenience.
Your next level? It requires a different level of connection.
Spiritually mature. Emotionally safe. Energetically aligned.
Prayer warriors. Laugh bringers. Safe spaces. Real ones.
Your circle has to be able to pray, cry, and laugh with you — because that’s what it means to be held.
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