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SIGNS YOU’RE DEALING WITH A BACKBITER

Backbiters tend to reveal themselves if you’re paying attention:

• They bring you other people’s secrets. If they regularly talk about others, you can be sure they talk about you too.
• They disguise shade as concern. “I’m only saying this because I care” is often followed by a comment that undermines you.
• They want constant access. They collect details about your wins and your weaknesses, then reshape the story in places you can’t reach.

Destiny swapping begins in the unseen. In that realm, words carry weight and act as binding agreements. They create openings. They authorize influence. When multiple people agree on a lie, it gains momentum. That’s why you can walk into a room and feel resistance before anyone speaks; the atmosphere has already been poisoned.

This is what makes backbiting more dangerous than open hostility. You don’t see it coming. It works quietly, eroding trust and creating a path for someone else to take what’s yours.

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